Searching for A House

Posted on 10 May 2012

Searching for A House

We’ve been looking for a larger house for a while now so while I was walking to the park with my daughter today I was really excited to see a beautiful old house for sale. It’s only a couple blocks from our place now, well made (over 100 years old) GORGEOUS!! So, when we are [...]


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When You Feel a Little Whiny, Put Your Problems in Perspective

Posted on02 Jun 2010

No jokes or snarky coments here,  just the heartbreaking shitty deal that has been dealt to WAAAAAY too many young girls in the world.

Afghan Child Brides Flogged After Fleeing Husbands

from:  Rightjuris.com

Two young teen girls fled the abusive and much older husbands they had been forced to marry. The brutality of their punishment can be seen in the video below.

Afghan Child Brides Flogged After Fleeing Husbands (Video)

Basgol, 14, and Khadija, 13, dressed themselves as boys and made their way onto a bus. When the bus was pulled over by police their immediate thought was they had been saved, but that was not to be. The police officers returned the young girls to their home village and abusive husbands, knowing full well these children would be sadistically flogged.

The flogging of both girls—Basgol and Khadija, was videotaped by a handful of spectators and only released when the Afghanistan Independent Human Rights Commission failed in their attempt to win government action to protect them.

For some reason, the Afghan government is not able or willing to clamp down on the forced marriages of very young girls; often to men old enough to be their grandfathers.

Marriage of girls under 16, as well as flogging is illegal in Afghanistan, but that doesn’t stop the barbaric savagery that occurs on a regular basis. Illegal is just another word to be ignored.

The public flogging and forced marriages of female children remain widespread, and sadly, help is not on the horizon in spite of what the Afghanistan government says.

Girls are often sold by their fathers to pay off debts and are sometimes killed by them if they run away from their husbands.

These children are regularly beaten, fed poison and sometimes turned into suicide bombers, according to human rights activists.

The case of Khadija Rasoul, 13, and Basgol Sakhi, 14, from the village of Gardan-i-Top, in the Dulina district of Ghor Province, central Afghanistan, was notable for the failure of the authorities to do anything to protect the girls, despite opportunities to do so.

Forced into a so-called marriage exchange, where each girl was given to an elderly man in the other’s family, Khadija and Basgol later complained that their husbands beat them when they tried to resist consummating the unions.

While there are shelters for the runaway child brides, the police willfully turned these two young girls over to Fazil Ahad Khan, the self appointed morals enforcer in his district in Ghor Province. If not so tragic, this would be laughable.

Khan punished the children on January 12, 2010 with 40 lashes each.

In the video, the mullah, under Mr. Khan’s approving eye, administers the punishment with a leather strap, which he appears to wield with as much force as possible, striking each girl in turn on her legs and buttocks with a loud crack each time. Their heavy red winter chadors are pulled over their heads so only their skirts protect them from the blows.

The video is extremely disturbing, the physical pain and public humiliation is abundantly evident.

For all of you that wonder why we are involved in Afghanistan or Iraq’s business, or what is it we’re fighting for, I urge you to watch this.

How does anyone or any government justify the flogging, whipping, beating of 2 young child brides that ran away from forced marriages? Are these children not human? Are they less valuable than our own?

I wonder what those Code Pink cowards think when they see something like this—are they truly ok with this situation? Why can’t they don their pretty pink outfits and go screaming and pounding their chests over the sadistic and savage flogging these children are forced to endure? Why picket a Military base when you might actually be able to do something worthwhile with your time? You have a voice—use it to stop this the violence against children!

Do you think we’ll ever be able to stop the barbaric practice of flogging, or forcing little girls to marry old men?

Please watch the video, but be warned it’s graphic. If you have any thoughts on Afghan Child Brides Flogged After Fleeing Husbands, we’d really like to ‘hear’ what you have to say.


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  • http://mommamiameaculpa.com meleah rebeccah

    Im sorry, but there is just NO WAY I would be able to handle watching that video. I am horrified after just reading what you wrote. I cant stomach any more visuals.

  • http://harrietandfriends.com Harriet

    I am grateful each and every day to be in the US.

    I just don’t get the thought processes in some places….

  • http://dazeedreams.blogspot.com/ Donna

    I too can’t watch the video. My stomach was turning reading your post. I don’t understand this world at all. Stuff like this actually makes it really hard for me to believe in any kind of “higher” godlike person. No matter what religion. Thank you tho for bringing this to the attention of all people that read your blog.

  • http://www.injaynesworld.blogspot.com/ injaynesworld

    This is one of the reasons the work to build schools primarily for girls in the rural areas of Pakistan and Afghanistan being done by Greg Mortensen (Three Cups of Tea) and the Central Asia Institute is so important. No amount of bombs will change the hearts and minds of the tribes in these areas. And it’s very important to remember that, much like when the U.S. was populated with tribes of Indians, each with their own language, customs and governing leaders, that is the situation we’re face with here. There is no central ruling government as we think of such. You have to win over the people and the leaders tribe by tribe. It’s been shown that villages with educated women are more prosperous. When boys are educated they leave, but women stay and contribute to the economy and well-being of the village. As leaders see this, they beg for girls schools to be built in their regions. Both “Three Cups of Tea” and his latest book “Stones For Schools” give an education about these regions like no other. But again, the key here is education, not war. If war was the answer, then we should be bombing the hell out of the Bush/Cheney good buddies, the Saudis. Much of what we of the treatment of girls and women in these other nations is exported by Saudi Arabia.

  • sheila

    meleah rebeccah – The story is so bad you don’t even need to watch it – but I think everyone NEEDS to watch it, that’s the only way it will ever change.

    Harriet – As screwed up as the US is, I am also grateful to be here. I have to think that there are men out there that intentionally suppress these girls for their own sick benefits.

    Donna – I hate reading stuff like this but I make myself and I also talk about it with my kids (although I didn’t show them the video), I want them to know what kind of lives others have. Maybe one day they will be the one to make a change that will change the world. Most of the kids I know think the world is all video games and candy.

    injaynesworld – I don’t know what the answer is. I’m just thinking of those 12 year girls and what they have been through and how little their lives are worth. I have an 11 and 12 year old I can’t imagine them with this type of burden. I’ll have to research this some more and see what I can do to help. I’ll start with the references you gave. Thanks

  • http://www.redheadranting.com/ Jen

    I watched the video, as all women and men from free worlds should. These children need help and they aren’t getting it from the people who should be protecting them..their parents and their government. They have no rights and we should all be up in arms about this behavior. Thank you for putting this on your blog, it is something we all need to see over and over again, until children like these two can just be children.

  • http://mymommadrama.com Momma Drama

    That’s really sad. The government is supposed to be helping these young girls. They’re not even women yet and can’t defend themselves. I can’t believe there are places like this in the world.

  • http://mymommyconfessions.blogspot.com mama mia

    i feel very sad about what i just read and saw. no matter how much i would prefer to deny the existence of such brutality in the world, it IS there. i feel grateful that my daughter & i are here in manila.

    thank you for bringing this to our attention. i will make a point of spreading this blog/link to as many as i possibly can. i hope it will be the start of good things for the women and children of afghanistan.

  • http://travelingsuitcase.blogpsot.com/ sandy

    That video pales compared to some of the reports I’ve seen. Not making light of the horrible situation, just saying it’s not the first I’ve seen or the worst. The sad part is the existence of this is far more widely spread then people want to believe. The government’s job is not to protect these girls. We judge that government by our own standards here in the safe USA. Our governments job is to protect; but there’s isn’t.

    And our being there isn’t protecting the girls either. That’s not why we’re at war, it sounds noble to say that if someone questions why we’re there watch the video; but it has nothing to do with why we’re there; another very sad truth.

    Far worse then the government not protecting them to me is their own families did this to them, and will do it again; because they see nothing wrong with it. And it’s just not the men either. I’ve seen reports where women turn in other women trying to escape a bad situation. Women can be as brutal and twisted as the men.

    Excellent blog post

  • http://www.smalltownmommy.com Anne

    I didn’t watch the video but I did notice that the caption referenced 2 women being beaten. In my opinion, they should not be women yet. The HRC currently has a huge campaign against child brides. You should definitely check it out. I think everyone, republican or democrat can agree that 13 year old girls shouldn’t be forced into abusive marriages. I do agree with Sandy that our being in the country is doing nothing to protect the girls and even if we were to win if wouldn’t have an impact.

  • http://www.shoot-me-now.com Katherine

    No way I can watch it. Horrible… makes you so happy to live here, despite the problems US faces…

  • http://www.morningcupwithmeg.com Meg

    I once watched a movie about this very subject in an anthropology course. I can remember being absolutely horrified…not just at what I saw, but because up until then (and I was 20 at the time) I had NO idea that this sort of thing happened in our world. So often I take my freedoms for granted, and these girls are living in a nightmare. I certainly hope that something can be done in the future to save them from having to endure such pain and misery.

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